Live in - is the in thing?
Live-in?
This word has always been controversial for the society.
But, now has become a trend for the youth. Infact, most of the youth prefer
live-in first, before committing about any relationship.
What is Live-in:
Live-in simply means living together. Living with your
partner without any legal marriage, is what we say a 'Live-in relationship'.
And nowadays, a remarkable people are following it. And why they should not?
Afterall, no commitment is better than a broken one or Divorce. As observed,
and as we see, every relationship is an ideal relationship at the beginning.
But, do it remains that ideal for a longer time? Or do it remains the same till
the end? No, Obviously not!
In the start, you see your partner as perfect. As they
basically are showing you their good side only. Think about it! When you love
someone, you are into a relationship, but, you aren't living with them, you
just get to know about the side that they show you. And you fall for it, but
what about the side that you still don't know? What about their bad routine
habits, that might get intolerable for you? So, to know whether you both are
compatible with each other, the youth are now following this 'live-in' trend
better than marriages.
Why live-in? Relationship, Commitment are such heavy words that
comes along with bags filled up of responsibilities you need to care of.
Doesn't the baggage feel heavy sometimes? Are we really ready to take these
responsibilities with us? Or are we even sufficient to handle our own selves
properly? Some of you might have a Big 'No' to this question. Youth nowadays
are keeping themselves away of the responsibilities. They welcome love, with a
big heart, but somehow want a sense of freedom, independency in every
relationship. Nobody loves to live bounded by anyone else. Love is just another
name to set the person free. And, the more they understand it, the more they
get influence or in favour of this freedom, and want to sustain a live-in
relationship.
Is it stable? Is it long lasting?
So, in some cases, yes, it is stable and last long, and in
other it might get filled with insecurities and other serious issues. Because,
choices may change when you live with someone 24x7, and preferences may differ.
So, yes, lesser chances of Stability in Live-in. On the
other side, if you demand stability with your life, marriage is the thing for
you. A legal bond that may binds you to someone you love, until death separates
you two.
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