Live in - is the in thing?



Live-in?

This word has always been controversial for the society. But, now has become a trend for the youth. Infact, most of the youth prefer live-in first, before committing about any relationship.

 

What is Live-in:

Live-in simply means living together. Living with your partner without any legal marriage, is what we say a 'Live-in relationship'. And nowadays, a remarkable people are following it. And why they should not? Afterall, no commitment is better than a broken one or Divorce. As observed, and as we see, every relationship is an ideal relationship at the beginning. But, do it remains that ideal for a longer time? Or do it remains the same till the end? No, Obviously not!


In the start, you see your partner as perfect. As they basically are showing you their good side only. Think about it! When you love someone, you are into a relationship, but, you aren't living with them, you just get to know about the side that they show you. And you fall for it, but what about the side that you still don't know? What about their bad routine habits, that might get intolerable for you? So, to know whether you both are compatible with each other, the youth are now following this 'live-in' trend better than marriages.

 

Why live-in? Relationship, Commitment are such heavy words that comes along with bags filled up of responsibilities you need to care of. Doesn't the baggage feel heavy sometimes? Are we really ready to take these responsibilities with us? Or are we even sufficient to handle our own selves properly? Some of you might have a Big 'No' to this question. Youth nowadays are keeping themselves away of the responsibilities. They welcome love, with a big heart, but somehow want a sense of freedom, independency in every relationship. Nobody loves to live bounded by anyone else. Love is just another name to set the person free. And, the more they understand it, the more they get influence or in favour of this freedom, and want to sustain a live-in relationship.

 

Is it stable? Is it long lasting?

So, in some cases, yes, it is stable and last long, and in other it might get filled with insecurities and other serious issues. Because, choices may change when you live with someone 24x7, and preferences may differ.

So, yes, lesser chances of Stability in Live-in. On the other side, if you demand stability with your life, marriage is the thing for you. A legal bond that may binds you to someone you love, until death separates you two.

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